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My wife has a partner on the side; I want one too

By Dan Savage
You’ve opened the relationship up to seek friends-with-benefits, as the straight people call ’em, or fuck buddies, as we gay people like to call ’em. But why not have sex with each other, anyway, asks Dan Savage.
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Got any tips on how to arrange a 3-way?

By Dan Savage
So I have been in a relationship with the same guy since I was about 16. It’s been a little over four years now, but I came out to him a year ago about the fact that I’m bisexual, which he has no problem with. So since then, I have had wild fantasies about a threesome with a really hot girl. But it’s a lot harder to arrange that than it seems. Do you have any suggestions about how we can find a third? We’ve already tried Craigslist with no luck.
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Teach those punk-ass kids a lesson

By Dan Savage
It’s hardly child abuse to refrain from asking others to entertain the possibility that your toddler son will one day enjoy taking it up the ass.
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Your wife is a dirty, dirty perv

By Dan Savage
The best way for a straight man to demonstrate to a straight woman that anal sex can be mutually pleasurable—that it’s not (necessarily) about dominance and degradation—is to do the gentlemanly thing and go first.
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Playing for the other team and misleading photos

By Dan Savage
Female sexuality is a fluid and male sexuality is a solid, says Dan Savage, while misleading photos are unfair to the person misled and set the sender up for devastating rejections.
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Ladies and gentlemen, there’s a lot of porn out there

By Dan Savage
If you’ve tried to find porn that caters to your special needs without much luck, then chances are that the porn you’re looking for simply doesn’t exist.
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I'm ugly. What are my options?

By Dan Savage
Things get better as you get older. People are assholes in their 20s, and pouring alcohol into assholes doesn’t make ’em stink less.
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Don't let parents and religion get in the way of good sex

By Dan Savage
After all, kids, the same vengeful, sex-obsessed, entirely fictitious God who disapproves of premarital sex also disapproves of any and all “nonintercourse ways” of getting your boyfriend off, says Dan Savage.
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I like women watching me masturbate

By Dan Savage
Kinks should always be presented as perks, as something that makes you a more interesting and fun sex partner, not as something that makes you a defective or problematic sex partner, says Dan Savage.
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Virtual partners and golden showers

By Dan Savage
We can spend all day worrying about terrifying new sex technologies that have yet to be developed—virtual fuck buddies, horse-hung sexbots—or we can cross those terrifying bridges when we come to, on, or in them.
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Why should a lesbian have my boyfriend's child?

By Dan Savage
The gay-marriage decision and her boyfriend’s aborted decision to serve as sperm donor for a lesbian couple have nothing whatsoever to do with each other, and her efforts to link them only make this reader look like a nutcase.
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How to revive a comatose sex life, and the trials of gay marriage in the U.S.

By Dan Savage
With some effort and some balls, sex can return to a barren marriage; don't panic over marriage proposals; and why the religious right are praying for divine judgment on the latest round of gay marriages States-side.
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Readers respond to Dan's advice to Shitty Boyfriend

By Dan Savage
The following is a special Web supplement to Dan Savage’s regular column. Users are reminded that any links below are independent from Vancouver Free Press Publishing Corporation, and we do not endorse, control, or make any representations, warranties, or conditions concerning their contents or links.
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Hot threesomes, major kinks, & voyeurism

By Dan Savage
The secret to ensuring that a threesome fails, how to approach dating with a lust for bondage, and the secret to a successful kink: never give up.
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Readers respond to issues of marriage rights, threesomes and masturbation

By Dan Savage
The following is a special Web supplement to Dan Savage’s regular column. Users are reminded that any links below are independent from Vancouver Free Press Publishing Corporation, and we do not endorse, control, or make any representations, warranties, or conditions concerning their contents or links.
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Dumping jerks, band groupies, and open relationships

By Dan Savage
With the exception of the 12-year-old “brides” of creepy “fundamentalist” Mormon fucksticks, a little getting dumped into each life must fall. And you know what? Getting dumped is good for us.
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FFM threesomes, marriage rights, and masturbation

By Dan Savage
Masturbation isn’t something that happens to you--it’s not a tax audit or a flat tire or a meteor strike. It’s something you decide to do, and is part of adult married life.
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Sexual resources for people with disabilities

By Dan Savage
Just like we do with everyone, we tend to assume folks with disabilities are straight and just want to have penile-vaginal intercourse and some oral sex. We’re almost always wrong.
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The trials of keeping it open and honest

By Dan Savage
Open relationships are great, but they're not for everyone; why you should tell the truth about herpes; and why fucking around for "manpussy" is bad for everyone.
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Running around having sex — safe sex

By Dan Savage
The AIDS virus isn’t fire and gay men aren’t twigs; it doesn’t matter how vigorously you rub us against each other, we’re not going to suddenly burst into HIV.
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Readers respond to the campsite rule about sex with younger people

By Dan Savage
The following is a special Web supplement to Dan Savage’s regular column. Users are reminded that any links below are independent from Vancouver Free Press Publishing Corporation, and we do not endorse, control, or make any representations, warranties, or conditions concerning their contents or links.
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Speaking of bondage...

By Dan Savage
Dan Savage takes questions on marriage from a geezer in love and a woman with a lonely ring finger, and helps out a girlfriend who’s just looking for a little light bondage.
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Dino-dragon and robot porn

By Dan Savage
The coming of fuckbots is going to make fantasies that are currently unrealizable for reasons of biology, logistics, or morality suddenly very, very realizable.
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Giving Mom credit for my very curious career

By Dan Savage
Hey, everybody: If you missed last week’s column, I’m taking a week off because, well, go read last week’s column if you care to know. Here’s an old column to tide you over.
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A thank-you note for my mother

By Dan Savage
Dan Savage struggles to write a column and finds a fitting space among the escort ads to eulogize his mother.
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