We can spend all day worrying about terrifying new sex technologies that have yet to be developed—virtual fuck buddies, horse-hung sexbots—or we can cross those terrifying bridges when we come to, on, or in them.

The gay-marriage decision and her boyfriend’s aborted decision to serve as sperm donor for a lesbian couple have nothing whatsoever to do with each other, and her efforts to link them only make this reader look like a nutcase.

With some effort and some balls, sex can return to a barren marriage; don't panic over marriage proposals; and why the religious right are praying for divine judgment on the latest round of gay marriages States-side.

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The secret to ensuring that a threesome fails, how to approach dating with a lust for bondage, and the secret to a successful kink: never give up.

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With the exception of the 12-year-old “brides” of creepy “fundamentalist” Mormon fucksticks, a little getting dumped into each life must fall. And you know what? Getting dumped is good for us.

Masturbation isn’t something that happens to you--it’s not a tax audit or a flat tire or a meteor strike. It’s something you decide to do, and is part of adult married life.

Just like we do with everyone, we tend to assume folks with disabilities are straight and just want to have penile-vaginal intercourse and some oral sex. We’re almost always wrong.

Open relationships are great, but they're not for everyone; why you should tell the truth about herpes; and why fucking around for "manpussy" is bad for everyone.

The AIDS virus isn’t fire and gay men aren’t twigs; it doesn’t matter how vigorously you rub us against each other, we’re not going to suddenly burst into HIV.

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Dan Savage takes questions on marriage from a geezer in love and a woman with a lonely ring finger, and helps out a girlfriend who’s just looking for a little light bondage.

The coming of fuckbots is going to make fantasies that are currently unrealizable for reasons of biology, logistics, or morality suddenly very, very realizable.

Hey, everybody: If you missed last week’s column, I’m taking a week off because, well, go read last week’s column if you care to know. Here’s an old column to tide you over.