I feel like if I skip past reading an obituary, I'm disrespecting the person who passed away so I try to read as many as I can. I'm struck by how intolerably unfair some deaths are. To be killed by a drunk driver or a freak accident. I wish we could trade places because perhaps they were mentally/emotionally OK but just suffered this horrid twist of fate. Whereas I am mentally/emotionally unwell so not being here is a tolerable idea.