I dealt with some lowlife at work that bombarded me with depressing stories about his divorces. He seemed okay at first but when he kept passing judgement on my relationships, that's when I really lost all respect for him. Had to distance myself from him. People that have gone through more than one divorce have no business talking about or judging other people's relationships. I feel very sorry for my colleague's ex wife. Let that be a lesson to some people out there: get your priorities on straight. Get it together and fix your own life instead of worrying about someone else's life.